What does it mean to be a mother? This role is immense, ever changing, and unpredictable. Today my heart if filled with appreciation. I am so thankful to have the opportunity to be a mother. I think about the ups and downs that I’ve had so far on this journey. There are so many times that I wish I could have handled the situation differently, I wish I hadn’t reacted in that way, or have said those things. Those are the moments that drive me to look inward and learn more about myself. Then I have those moments where I am so proud of myself as a mother that I want to shout it out for the world to hear. Those are the moments of celebration. I don’t know that any mother has it figured out. The relationships with our kids are too dynamic and always evolving to figure out completely. In my mind, as I evolve as a person, I evolve as a mother. I know it’s not a linear path either. I have accepted that just when I feel like I’m making progress, a situation could trigger something in me that sets me back a step or two and that is okay. To be a mother is messy and beautiful all at the same time. It’s not a race or a competition. I think it’s about fostering true connection, understanding, and presence. I believe every child has their own individual and authentic soul and it’s our job to foster a safe environment for it to unfold. It’s a matter of staying curious, interested, and letting go little by little. It’s also about being kind to ourselves. There is a lot that goes into how we parent; our past conditioning, environment, and so forth. With that, be kind to yourself as you are trying to be a good mother. When you have those tough days remember you are a good mom having a bad day. Take a moment to reflect, forgive yourself, and lean on a higher power for guidance and support.
I say to you and therefore I say to myself:
You are doing a great job. You can do this. You are evolving. You are learning. You are radiant. You are special. You are love. You are in good hands and you are a damn good mother. I love you!
Happy Mother’s Day!
With love
KCG